Glimmers of Maturity

M went to the Winter Weekend last week.

This program is especially for teens with diabetes. This year about 35 kids with diabetes spent the weekend in Vermont playing games, doing ropes courses, having a dance, and listening to adults with diabetes explain how they manage their disease.

There was a power lifter. There was a triathlete.

M reunited with some of her friends from summer camp, and also met some new ones.

Of course she had a good time. She's M. She loves people and new experiences.

Flash back to camp time: I pick up the flier about the Winter Weekend and ask M if she'd like to go. She shakes her head in distaste. "No, I am just not into that."

I signed her up anyway.

I am thinking that she seems to burn out on having diabetes every few months, and that this might be a chance for her to recharge her diabetic-management batteries.

Needless to say, I am smugly congratulating myself on being right about that one. She thanked me repeatedly on the way home.

At pick up time, there was a parent meeting, in which we heard about the kids' weekend as well as what resources are out there for parents and children with diabetes.

There was one program that caught my eye, but I didn't think that M would go for it. It is a program called STAR: Steps Toward Adult Responsibility. The program matches teens with mentors who are managing chronic illnesses in college. The illness does not have to be diabetes, but includes chron's disease, celiac, and other ailments that do not go away. As I listened to the college student in charge of the program, I thought I might talk to M about about checking it out in the car ride home.

The ride home was fun. M told me some stories, shared what the speakers were saying, and how it affected her. Then she mentioned the STAR program, and told me that she had signed up to be on their e-mail list, and can we start going to their monthly meetings?

I drove on, amazed as my daughter explained that she thinks that she needs support more than every six months, and that she thinks the program will really help her stay on track and keep a positive attitude.

Will wonders never cease?

But, just so you know that M is still M, she is begging us to buy her some girl scout cookies this year.

Because they are yummy.